Welcome

Greetings Everyone!!!
I am starting this blog as a place for Gay men and women to come and read information about a variety of topics and issues. If you would like to be a guest author on my blog, please email me at CarlDinsmore@yahoo.com and tell me why you would like to post something on my blog. This is also a way for people in Cincinnati to get linked to social organizations that maybe they did not know existed. I will work hard on placing all sorts of information on the site, regarding Books, Medical updates, Causes that I deelpy care about, Gay vacation destinations, Gay Sports, and much, much more. Its also just a venue for you to share comments on postings, or share with me a cause or topic I could add to my site.
Last year was a very tough year for me, as I was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, which is a form of depression mainly diagnosed in women, but more and more men are being diagnosed with this illness. So, look for information regarding borderline on the blog. Finally having a diagnosis regarding my depression was life saving. Coming through that crisis is what gave me the idea to create this blog.
But my number one goal for this site is the fact that it is time for unity in the gay community. Its time to STOP tearing each other down, but rather to build each other up. We are not all alike. We are different and these differences are what makes our world such a wonderful place to live. Please enjoy the site, and lets unite to make our world the best place it can be.

My favortie gay related qoute EVER!!!!

If God had wanted me otherwise, He would have created me otherwise.


Johann von Goethe

Another great night view of our City!

Another great night view of our City!
Cincinnati is simply beautiful....

News source for Cincinnati Gay and Lesbian community.

News source for Cincinnati Gay and Lesbian community.
The Greater Cincinnati Gay and Lesbian News!

Cincinnati's Freestore Foodbank

Cincinnati's Freestore Foodbank
Help this organization help those in need!

Cincinnatis Premier Gay & Lesbian Softball League

Cincinnatis Premier Gay & Lesbian Softball League
PLAY BALL!!!!!

Cincinnati's Gay & Lesbian Golf League

Cincinnati's Gay & Lesbian Golf League
FORE!!!!!!!

Cincinnati's Gay and Lesbian Volleyball Connection.

Cincinnati's Gay and Lesbian Volleyball Connection.
DIG, SET, SPIKE!!!

Cincinnati Rainbow Pride Tennis League

Cincinnati Rainbow Pride Tennis League
Cincinnatis Gay & Lesbian Tennis League

Monday, April 13, 2009

I am so over people saying they dont have time...

OK ,I finally have to throw in my 2 cents about this. I organize a few sports leagues where I live and getting people to communicate is becoming more and more difficult. The number one thing I am hearing from those who are at the end of the complaint is the ever famous " I just do not have time. " Are you freaking kidding me with that crap?? I have seen people drive their car while putting on makeup, eating a hamburger and texting on their blackberry all at the same time. So, I am not buying it, not for a minute.
It takes 2 seconds to send someone an email or text, just a simple effort made to communicating with people. I don't care if you have to have to take your blackberry into the bathroom stall at work, there is time. Technology has so made it so much easier for us to communicate in today's world, yet we still want to use the lack of time as an excuse for everything we fall short of accomplishing.
We waste so much time and so many of us are HORRIBLE at time management. BUT please people stop using that I don't have time as an excuse to communicate with each other, because that is simply crap. If you own a blackberry and use that excuse, you should be made to go without it and the Internet for a year!!! I think we have lost total sight of how people managed to do all the things we do today without any of the technology that now helps us.
So, come on people, lets make a better effort to communicate and let us stop using the excuse of time as the reason for our lack of trying.

Sunday, April 5, 2009

Newest Poem...."There It Is Again..."

There it is again.
A visual not new to my mind.
All my energy is trying to stop it.
Trying to stop it is emptying my soul.

The existence I want is simplistic.
Only to feel deep, touch lightly, and see clearly.
Life's plan seems to thrive on making it all but.
It is so far from what we want, but do we become stronger?

Stronger is relative to what we want and what we need.
Questions lie deep in the knowing of what is it we need.
Who knows where the answer to this is or who has it.
Is it it us and the entire journey is to uncover it?

Not only to uncover it, but to understand its meaning.
To understand it down to the deepest root of the tallest tree.
To embrace it like the biggest cloud at the highest point in the sky.
Only with that clarity will it make sense and feelings of peace will emerge.

The slumber that comes from this peace will be as if from heaven.
Understanding all there is about ones self will open many gates.
Gates do not only allow you to leave, but they also allow others to enter.
There it is a again. Is it a dream, a realization or a prayer?